How can we easily make fun moments even more pleasurable?
When something good happens, don’t try to explain it or make sense of it. Just enjoy it. Don’t try to resolve any uncertainties. (“Who gave me this gift? Do I deserve it? Why me?”)
As this study shows, a little uncertainty after a positive event prolongs enjoyment. We always want answers but the truth is making sense of good things reduces the pleasure we feel:
The authors hypothesized that uncertainty following a positive event prolongs the pleasure it causes and that people are generally unaware of this effect of uncertainty. In 3 experimental settings, people experienced a positive event (e.g., received an unexpected gift of a dollar coin attached to an index card) under conditions of certainty or uncertainty (e.g., it was easy or difficult to make sense of the text on the card). As predicted, people’s positive moods lasted longer in the uncertain conditions. The results were consistent with a pleasure paradox, whereby the cognitive processes used to make sense of positive events reduce the pleasure people obtain from them. Forecasters seemed unaware of this paradox; they overwhelmingly preferred to be in the certain conditions and tended to predict that they would be in better moods in these conditions.